I came across a recently published list of EW.com's 50 Most Heartbreaking Songs of All Time. If you want to check out the entire list, you can click on that link and see them all for yourself. There are a few songs on the list that I agree with. My favorite might be Bonnie Raitt's "I Can't Make You Love Me" and both Eric Clapton's "Tears in Heaven" and R.E.M.'s "Everybody Hurts" would definitely make my list. I was surprised by the lack of 80s songs to make the list. Here are the 8 songs from the 80s that actually made the EW.com list: 50. "Careless Whisper" (1984) by Wham! 43. "If You Were Still Around" (1982) by John Cale 41. "Hate My Way" (1986) by Throwing Muses 39. "Dusty In Here" (1983) by The Go-Betweens 28. "Pictures of You" (1989) by The Cure 19. "He Stopped Loving Her Today" (1980) by George Jones 12. "Love Will Tear Us Apart" (1980) by Joy Division 9. "Purple Rain" (1984) by Prince Not overly impressed? Neither was I. There were many more obvious choices that came to my mind, so I decided to publish my own list based on the songs that seem heartbreaking to me. I am going to give you my top 30 from just the 80s and only two of the 8 songs above made my list. The list will also include video links for the top 20 songs and a sample lyric for the top 10 songs. There are many more that I would include from other decades that did not make the EW.com list either, but as usual, my list will just focus on the 80s. So here is OLD SCHOOL'S TOP 10 MOST HEARTBREAKING SONGS OF THE 80s (+ Bonus 20): 30. "Living Inside Myself" (1981) by Gino Vanelli 29. "Someday" (1986) by Glass Tiger - Also included on my Top 80s Songs With One-Word Titles list 28. "Never Say Goodbye" (1987) by Bon Jovi - Also included on my Top Bon Jovi Songs from the 80s list 27. "Missing You" (1984) by Diana Ross - written by Ross and Lionel Richie after the death of Marvin Gaye 26. "I Don't Want To Live Without You" (1987) by Foreigner 25. "Could've Been" (1988) by Tiffany - a lot of heartbreak for a song that was sung by a 17 year old
24. "Right Here Waiting" (1989) by Richard Marx 23. "I've Been In Love Before" (1986) by Cutting Crew 22. "Where Are You Now?" (1989) by Jimmy Harnen with Synch 21. "I'll Be Alright Without You" (1987) by Journey - Also included on my Top Journey Songs list 20. "The Living Years" (1988) by Mike + The Mechanics [link to video of live performance] 19. "Careless Whisper" (1984) by Wham! [link to video] 18. "Close My Eyes Forever" (1988) by Lita Ford with Ozzy Osbourne [link to video] - Also included on my Best 80s Duet Songs list 17. "I'll Be Over You" (1986) by Toto [link to video] 16. "What About Me" (1982) by Moving Pictures [link to video] 15. "Don't Dream It's Over" (1986) by Crowded House [link to video]
14. "Heaven Help Me" (1989) by Deon Estus with George Michael [link to video] 13. "Forever Young" (1984) by Alphaville [link to video] 12. "Total Eclipse of the Heart" (1983) by Bonnie Tyler [link to video] 11. "Just Once" (1981) by James Ingram [link to video of live performance] 10. "Holding Back the Years" (1985) by Simply Red [link to video of live performance] - "I've wasted all my tears, Wasted all those years, And nothing had the chance to be good, Nothing ever could." 9. "Can't We Try" (1987) by Dan Hill with Vonda Shepard [link to video] - "Can't we try just a little more passion, Can't we try just a little less pride, I love you so much baby, That it tears me up inside." 8. "Alone" (1987) by Heart [link to video] - "You don't know how long I have waited and I was going to tell you tonight, But the secret is still my own, And my love for you is still unknown, Alone." 7. "All Out of Love" (1980) by Air Supply [link to video] - "I'm lying alone with my head on the phone, Thinking of you 'til it hurts, I know you hurt too, but what else can we do? Tormented and torn apart."
6. "And So It Goes" (1989) by Billy Joel [link to video] - "So I would choose to be with you, That's if the choice were mine to make, But you can make decisions too, And you can have this heart to break." 5. "All Cried Out" (1985) by Lisa Lisa & Cult Jam [link to video] - "I gave you my love in vain, My body never knew such pleasure, My heart never knew such pain, And you, You left me so confused, Now I'm all cried out, Over you." 4. "Purple Rain" (1984) by Prince & the Revolution [sorry no video link available] - "I never meant 2 cause u any sorrow, I never meant 2 cause u any pain, I only wanted 2 one time see u laughing, I only wanted 2 see u laughing in the purple rain."
3. "Every Time You Go Away" (1985) by Paul Young [link to video] - "I can't go on sayin' the same thing, 'Cause baby, can't ya see, we've got everything goin' on and on and on, Every time you go away you take a piece of me with you." 2. "At This Moment" (1981 & re-released 1986) by Billy Vera & the Beaters [link to video of live performance] - "What do you think I would give at this moment, If you'd stay I'd subtract twenty years from my life, I'd fall down on my knees, And kiss the ground that you walk on, If I could just hold you again." 1. "With or Without You" (1987) by U2 [link to video] - "My hands are tied, My body bruised, She's got me with, Nothing to win and, Nothing left to lose." Bono's voice on this song conveys even more than the words he sings.
There's my list. Those songs might not be heartbreaking to everybody, but that is the feeling I get when I listen to them. Please let me know any of your most heartbreaking songs from the 80s in the comments section below. Even though I consider these to be "heartbreaking" songs, many of them are also very beautiful and some of my favorites from that decade as well. Having your heart broke is bad, but these songs are mostly quite good. That will do it for this issue of Kickin' it Old School. Thanks much for reading. If you are interested in reading more of my 80s related issues, please click there for a summary of those. If you are interested in reading more of my Top 10 lists, please click there for a summary. You can also always click on the Archives in the upper left hand column or use the Google Search Box at the top of the right hand column to find any other issues you may have missed. If you are a fan of Kickin' it, PLEASE CLICK ON THE FACEBOOK LOGO in the upper right hand column. This will take you to the new Fan Page where I ask you to then click on "Become a Fan". Even if you are not a Facebook member yet, please consider joining and registering as a fan at that page. Let other 80s fans know about it as well! Peace and much love. Check this out: As all regular readers know, I am always amused by an ironic or obvious sign. Here is a picture of a sign that I think kind of goes without saying... 
Quote of the day: "Some of us think holding on makes us strong; but sometimes it is letting go." -Hermann Hesse
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